My Ex long distance finally answered my texts but he was in London at a big dinner with a ton of our friends and he put them all on the chat and he was yelling at me over text about how he could never date a girl who had a period and was being cruel and when I seemed support because he was with a bunch of girls they all agreeed with him so I was in the library when I was getting these messages and I took a video of Noey who is my good friend and Kassandra the librarian saying that all girls have periods and a real man would understand that and it did nothing he still yelled at me about it and out of self defense I called him gay and argued back and then he said Maddy my friend only ever got her period once and then I realized that he had moved on because he added his girlfriend to the chat using the matching profile pictures we once used and I started crying I woke up crying
Dreams involving ex-partners can often reflect unresolved feelings or conflicts from the relationship. In your dream, several themes stand out that can help in interpreting it:
Communication and Conflict: Your ex's anger and the cruel messages suggest unresolved issues from your past relationship. This might signify feelings of rejection, anger, or hurt that you may still be processing.
Support and Validation: Your attempt to gather support from friends and Kassandra the librarian indicates a desire for validation and solidarity. It could reflect a need for reassurance that others understand and accept you, especially regarding something as normal as having a period.
Comparison and Moving On: The moment you realized your ex had moved on and included his new girlfriend points to feelings of insecurity or inadequacy. It’s common to feel pain when seeing an ex with someone else, especially if you perceived your relationship to be significant.
Self-Defense and Identity: Your aggressive response, calling him gay in defense, may suggest that you feel the need to protect your self-esteem, but it could also indicate underlying anger or frustration regarding gender stereotypes and expectations.
Emotional Response: Waking up crying signifies the intensity of these emotions, suggesting that you’re still processing the breakup and its impact on your identity or self-worth.
Overall, this dream might be asking you to reflect on your feelings about your past relationship, your self-identity, and the emotional pain of moving on. It could also point towards a need for self-acceptance and understanding that your worth is not defined by your relationship with someone else. Taking time to reflect on these emotions may aid in your healing process.